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The fact that Tamar is identified as Absalom’s sister is important, as sisters play a potent
symbolic role in male-male relations in many societies, such as in the case of Dinah in Genesis
34. Another point of tension present in this passage according to Ken Stone is that the primary
obstacle to Amnon’s lust, as Amnon sees, is that Tamar is a betulah, or a virgin (2 Sam. 13: 2).
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This type of relationship between half siblings is prohibited in Leviticus 18: 18, but such incest is
not seen as an obstacle to Amnon.
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According to Trible, the narrator of this passage had chosen
to stress familial ties, with Tamar as the sister of Absalom rather than the object of Amnon’s
desire in order to present the intimacy which exacerbates the eventual tragedy. Through this
passage, the two central princes compete with each other through a woman, who both move
between protecting and polluting.
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Anthropological views on the importance of the virginity of
sisters, daughters, and other kinswomen intersect with the views on honor and reputation of male
relatives who need to protect their kinswomen.
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Tamar, however, does show her own strength in the face of this tragic event. L. Juliana
Claassens describes the potency of Tamar’s mourning, noting how mourning serves as a means
by which the trauma survivor may resist the violence that had befallen them, as reclaiming the
ability to feel the full range of motions is understood as an act of resistance rather than
submission to the perpetrator’s intent.
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According to Yamada, the forces of prophetic judgement
and royal succession shape the meaning of rape in the context of 2 Samuel 13. Tamar’s rape is
interpreted as the first part of the domestic strife that is a result of David’s two-fold sin of
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“He was in such anguish over his sister Tamar that he became sick; she was a virgin, and Amnon
thought it impossible to do anything to her.” (2 Sam. 13: 2 NAB).
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“You shall not have intercourse with your sister, your father’s daughter, or your mother’s daughter,
whether she was born in your own household or born elsewhere.” (Lev. 18: 18 NAB).
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Trible, Texts of Terror: Literary-Feminist Readings of Biblical Narratives, 38.
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Stone, Sex, Honor, and Power in the Deuteronomistic History, 106-7.
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L. Juliana M. Claassens. Claiming Her Dignity: Female Resistance in The Old Testament (Collegeville,
MN: Liturgical Press, 2016), 40-1.