INSPIRE
CBT Group Session 5
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Coping Statements
Coping statements can help decrease anxiety, depression, and negative self‐judgment. When we’re
especially upset or activated it’s easy to get caught up in negative, self‐defeating thoughts. One way to
reduce their power is to come up with healthier alternatives that are true for you. Come up with a list of
coping statements that feel reasonable and believable to you. Even when coping statements feel
awkward at first, try to repeat them often. The more that you practice saying coping statements to
yourself, the easier it will become to replace negative thought habits or “loops.” It takes time and
practice to create new habits. The good news is that the human brain is quite plastic, so we can actually
re‐condition ourselves and create new neural pathways.
Use this list to get started. Choose a handful that resonate with you or write alternatives that work
better. You may want to carry a list of your top 5‐10 coping statements in your wallet, planner, or phone
so they are always handy.
“This situation is temporary, this too shall pass.”
“I’ve survived painful experiences before, I will survive this too.”
“Just for this moment this is how it is, but this moment will pass, as all moments do.”
“I can be uncomfortable, and still make it through this situation.”
“It’s okay. I can do this.”
“All I have to manage is this very moment.”
“I can choose how I want to show up in this moment.”
“This is a moment. Let me relax into it and breath.”
“I am strong enough to handle what is happening to me right now.”
“My thoughts do not control my life.”
“I am the master of my own life, and I can chose my responses and tolerate my feelings.”
“I accept all my feelings and sensations as part of myself in this moment.”
“Even though the pain is high, I am not in danger right now, I am safe.”
“This situation sucks, but it is only temporary.”
“So what?! Seriously, so what if_____??”
“God/Spirit/The Universe always takes care of me; somehow I am always taken care of.”
“If I am alive, I have been taken care of and protected by someone or something.”
“Everything is working out exactly as it should, for the good of all concerned, even if I can’t see it right
now.”